Building Relationships

So what are your thoughts on the relationship fabs? Feeling a warm, secure, nine new, and magnetic?

All my friends have boyfriends, but not me. Part and I felt inadequate. Get real! The idea that lined both together a whole - you're only a half to find the other half - is not just a story. Unfortunately, many of us face the fact that we are smart enough, strong enough, cute, funny or cool enough. This is why we are forced to close with a scrub us feel valuable. Please note, this is a trap. You're good enough, for nobody else but you.

Why is this chick play with me? She is so damn beautiful and I'm not one! If your relationship is based on feeling safe and not available, not solid. Jealous or scared of losing the other half will always be there. Putting your confidence in the hands of others is bad for your health, they can hurt you without knowing it. In the end it is you who will feel like an even bigger loser than you did before it started. The first to build a solid foundation and you love to watch others grow naturally from there.

Here are some tips for getyou begins.

Choose a balanced relationship:

Looking for boys or girls who feel like equal partners, someone you can talk, laugh and even fought with (enough!) Me. If you feel that the game with your partner, you both more relaxed and be yourself, and really anything good in togetherness.

Avoid power struggles and inequalities:

They are sure-fire sign that one (or two) of you in that relationship to the fragile ego to improve, not because of love and respect for others.

You know people really just whenone digsanother person, but are not?
Attention! This situation is not favorable. Mr. Puppy Dog Eyes or Mrs. only get their feelings hurt, and others may feel sorry for them not to hurt. If a puppy dog, calm and get to know another person as a friend to know. If he is to you, you'll soon be able to see their eyes without tripping over your tongue. This is when you move - if you still want.

Some set-aside "Me" Time

Once in a relationship, take some time for yourself and relax. It's easy to pay every minute of your time and attention to the person or girl. Add to schools, friends, parents, and all that go, and you can not catch up days.

Take the time to do whatever your little heart desires. Is listening to music, a bike ride, spill your beans in a journal - to do what gives you rest from all over the world, and put TV! Protection of important moments vision only to see things clearly and know who you are, go to the next point ...

Pay attention to yourself

It may sound stupid, but grew up in the process of becoming more independent - learning how to care for themselves and feed the power to make choices that will get you where you want to make. You, so you should ensure your precious self.

Start paying attention to yourself.

What's your passion? What do you believe? What makes you happy? What do you want? Mad with the list. I know that you really might sound easy at all but one of the hardest things to do in the world. And if you know the practice itself, you can not find what works for you - like a bad relationship.

If your relationship sucks, leave. It is often easier to get to know yourself, if you are alone.
It is also a lot of courage - to know who you are as you are not in relationship with others. Feeling inadequate, the scariest thing in the world. But rest assured, you are important to your happiness. Maybe you feel more attractive, safe and desirable, as you know and respect yourself. And if you own you will see that your a better friend, which is more likely to choose a good partner.